People Who Like To Be Alone Have These 12 Special Personality Traits

Berenice Mulubah

There are many people like myself who like to be alone. If that's you, you tend to enjoy spending as much time alone as possible. Of course, you do have friends, it's not that you dislike people. You just like being alone and there is nothing wrong with that. As a loner, you also tend to have a higher standard for friendship, but you just have lesser need for pure acceptance than most. Here are the special personality traits for people who enjoy being alone.

1. Value Time: If there is anything extremely important to a loner, it's time. You respect and value time more than anything else. You are well aware that time is the most valuable asses to a successful life. You will do everything in your power to not be late, never waste anyone's time and will not allow anyone to waste your time. You avoid fake behavior and can not tolerate people that think you can be play with. Through your self awareness, you have develop huge level of self respect. People who respect your time the way you respect theirs, can expect one of the most incredible friendships imaginable.

2. Self-Aware: Many people choose to ignore their thoughts and emotions. People who like to be alone, choose to embrace these feelings, and become fully aware of them. Self awareness  is very important and difficult to achieve.  As a loner, you know yourself better than anyone else, and this allows you to better understand those around you. Everyone has periods of depressive and discouraging thoughts, but you are able to navigate through them much more easily.

3. Level-Headed: Loners are amazingly strong will when tough situations arise. As a result of your frequent reflection of alone time, you have incredible focus and will power. It's not to say that you don't get overwhelm by stressful situations, but instead of getting caught up with distractions, you just decide to spend some time alone and recharge. During this time, you find solutions to your problem and ways to cope.

4. Open-Minded: Even though, you like being alone, this doesn't make you closed minded. On the contrary, you are extremely open minded and always up for new ideas and activities. You don't plan to spend your entire life in your bedroom, and you do enjoy exploring and going on new adventures. However, others need to make sure that they give you alone time, before you go anywhere that involves other people.

5. Clear Boundaries: People who like to be alone, always have healthy boundaries. You understands yourself perfectly. You have strong values, you never feel alone, you know that you always have yourself, you respect your boundaries and would let others know when they are about to cross them. After all, if you can't be faithful to yourself, you can not be faithful to anyone.

6. Aware of Weaknesses and Strengths:  You are more aware of your strengths and weaknesses, however, you know that there is always room to improve, no matter how good you think you are doing. While you are aware of these imperfections, you still whole your head high and show others that it is okay to be confident in yourself.

7. Very Empathetic: You tend to be one of the most empathetic people in the entire world. You are able to feel and sympathize with others on the same level as they are on. Feeling everyone else sorrows and despairs is a very intense curse. But, since you are so empathetic, it is easy for you to find the bright side in almost negative circumstance. You will rather find the solution to whatever conflict is making someone upset .

8: Guided by Intuition: Your intuition is your constant guide, leading you to the next best that awaits you on your journey through life. There's a lot can be said about you and your gut instance. When it comes to making tough decisions, you don't get scare easily, because you know that your intuition lead you somewhere just as amazing as the last adventure that you had.

9. Never Codependent: There is never a time in your life where you feel that you need to depend on someone else for anything at all. Even if you are in a relationship with someone, you still prefer to be your own person, and prefer to do things your own way. Being dependent on someone else for trivia needs is something you try to avoid, and you will go to great length to show others how capable you are being on your own.

10. Fill with Kindness and Compassion: You love to demonstrate the meaning of compassion, as well as kindness to others. So, that they can understand that spreading love is a necessary piece of your existence.  It makes you good to show others just how passionate you are with the things you love to do most, as well as being with the people you love the most. This is one of the best qualities to the personality that not everyone get to witness.

11. Extremely Courageous: You are a person who has confidence, and that confidence makes you extremely desirable to everyone else. There is a certain glow about your personality that brings out the best in others. They look up to your courage with inspiration in their eyes. This goes hand in hand with you being one of the best role models, because of how courageous you really are.

12. Self-Loving: Even with the bad times in life, you still find a way to love yourself, no matter what happens to you. Of course, you know that there will be times when you are not that perfect, ready or experience yet, to do some of the things you want to do, you still love every piece of you. You know that regardless, there will always be room to improve, and that you are going to work really hard for that success. You are an extremely unique individual.